Monday 11 June 2012

Virgo and Virgo Compatibility

Virgo
Virgo, the Virgin, approximate dates are Aug. 23-Sept. 23

Flavor: There's always a lightly delicate but piquant flavor which accompanies a Virgo, some would suggest it is the aroma of a cleaning fluid of some kind.

Grocery store: If you go grocery shopping with a Virgo, be prepared to read the labels. Or be prepared for the Virgo to read the labels. The packaging itself doesn't matter, it's what's inside that counts, and this is what the Virgo seeks to find out.

Wal-Mart, after midnight: Ever been shopping with a Virgo? Ever thoughts about the number of times someone can squint at a label, and wonder just exactly what part of which animal those things came from? Imagine the scientific curiosity at work here. There's another problem, though, and one that suggest the results are not all in yet, that this an area which is going to require further research. "I'm not going in a Wal-Mart, please don't make me go there," I heard one Virgo girl whine. Good stuff, cheap, didn't quite work on her. The results are still up for study, as of right now. And most of the Virgo girls I know wouldn't be up after midnight, anyway, not if there was something else to do, like sleep.

Brick wall: When a Virgo encounters a fixed, immovable obstacle, there is but one solution. First, this brick wall must be disassembled, one grain of mortar at a time. And each single grain of sand that makes up this wall needs to be properly stored and labeled so that it can be reassembled later. Or so that whoever caused this obstacle can be found out and blamed. In any case, the Virgo will assure that this is all done perfectly.

Bait: Crappie Spin "it isn't just for Crappie, Smallmouth love it too!" -- This is a special lure, designed just for Crappie, but guess what? Smallmouth love it, too. And that's why it works for Virgo fish: the utilitarian nature of this lure will always attract that ever so practical, but mutable, Virgo. It's a perfect fit. Besides, just about every Virgo has a taste for the unusual -- that's why this dual purpose bait works so well.

Body part: Viscera.

Although Virgo can be altruistic, they have a tendency to act the martyr, using guilt as a weapon. Although adaptable to change, they can be vulnerable to the influence of other people. A Virgo will always find ways to be useful. And although shy, Virgo are idealistic and communication-oriented with an ability to sell. Always practical, they would be an effective negotiator because of their ability to instinctively respond to the needs of others. And they can endure endless details and responsibilities.

The Virgo analytical ability is amazing. A Virgo can seem quite talkative. They also have a penchant for books, magazines, and writing. There is an omnipresent critical eye for organization and detail. This can come across as an irresistible urge to improve everything and everyone. Not all Virgo's are neat freaks, though, and some can be quite sloppy, disorganized, and irresponsible. They've got this hypocrisy thing, don't they? Like a drill sergeant gone haywire, a Virgo dress someone up one side and down the other for their bad habits but then they have the same bad habits themselves? They are us usually health conscious and not overly competitive. Virgo may be a craftsman, seamstress, or designer. Virgo's usually have a fond interest in cartography, travel, or philately.

I lived in an apartment once with a property manager who was a Virgo. True to form, she had been in her new office for about 20 minutes when she calls me up and says, "You realize that you still owe the other half of your pet deposit?" This is a fine example of your Virgo attention to detail. I had neglected to pay that second half of the pet deposit for more than a year. Didn't get it past her Virgo eye, though.

Bernstein, Dvorak, and Charlie Parker were all Virgo's.

But for Virgo listening pleasure, try: Hayden's "Symphony No. 104," or Brahm's "Symphony No. 4." Maybe some Enigma, too. Any good Virgo will also go crazy over Gregorian Chants, too.

Ruled by: Mercury (and maybe some asteroids)
Keyword: Worry
Symbol: The Virgin
Element: Earth
Quality: Mutable
House: Number 6

Famous folks with Sun in Virgo include: Prince Albert, Fiona Apple, Lauren Bacall, Anne Bancroft, Debbie Boone, Tim Burton, Nell Carter, Maurice Chevalier, Sean Connery, Harry Connick Jr., David Copperfield, Elvis Costello, Jane Curtin, Brian De Palma, Cameron Diaz, Greta Garbo, Mitzi Gaynor, Richard Gere, Barry Gibb, Johann von Goethe, Samuel Goldwyn, O. Henry, Buddy Holly, Gustave Holst, Chrissie Hynde, Julio Iglesias, Michael Jackson, Jesse James, Tommy Lee Jones, Ken Kesey, B.B. King, D.H. Lawrence, Huey P. Long, Marylin Manson (Brian Warner), Rocky Marciano, Freddie Mercury (Farrokh Bulsara), Christopher Moore, Van Morrison, Bill Murray, Merlin Olsen, Kneau Reeves, Paul Reuben (Pee Wee Herman) Ann Richards, Jimmy Rodgers, Adam Sandler, William Saroyan, Peter Sellers, Charlie Sheen, Mary Shelley, Upton Sinclair, Leo Tolstoy, Lily Tomlin, Twiggy, Raquel Welch, Tuesday Weld, H.G. Wells, and Hank Williams.
           
Virgo men are a species unto themselves. If you've been involved with one, or are currently, this certainly isn't news to you. You've lived it and you know that confusion is often part of the course of caring for a Virgo. These men can go from hot to cold in an instant and if you're trying to catch his heart, you know that you need to be wary of what kind of net you choose. If you do anything wrong, in his eyes, the Virgo man may make a quick exit only to return a few weeks later proclaiming his undying devotion to you. If it seems confusing just reading it, imagine what it's like being immersed in it on a daily basis. If you're tired of living in a constant state of confusion with your Virgo guy, there are definitely ways to get the upper hand so you control the direction the virgo and virgo relationship goes.

Virgo men like to be the center of their woman's universe. That's a broad statement, isn't it? It tends to be true though. The reason is very simple. When a Virgo man begins to feel an emotional attachment to a woman he wants and needs to know that she feels exactly the same way about him. He doesn't want to invest his heart into a virgo virgo relationship in which his partner just views him as a casual date. That's why it's imperative that you make your Virgo man know that you truly do see him as someone remarkably special. Take time each day to tell him as much. If you are proactive with this he won't feel that you aren't as committed to him as he is to you.

When things go wrong, even slightly, as in the form of a minor disagreement, Virgo men sometimes blow things completely out of proportion. You may have already experienced this and if you have, you have my sympathies. This can be emotionally tasking even on the strongest of women. It's hard when the man you adore just shuts down completely because you two have a conflict. Some Virgo men even take their disappointment so far that they walk out of the relationship for a time. In this case, it's natural that you'd panic because to you his actions clearly indicate that he's had enough and is never coming back. He'll be back and unless you address his behavior in a calm and rational way, he'll repeat this circle again and again.

Tell your Virgo man that although you understand that he gets frustrated and looks to the nearest exit, that's just not acceptable to you. Suggest instead that if you two reach a point where he feels the need to vacate the virgo virgo compatibility relationship for a time that he simply calls a time out and disappears into himself for a few days. If you have this agreement in place you'll be emotionally prepared the next time he retreats. The difference is that you'll both understand that just because he's taken a step back to find his bearings, it doesn't mean the relationship is over.

You also must be mindful of the Virgo's need to keep information close to his vest. Typically when a couple becomes closer they share more and more of themselves with their partner. Virgo men aren't always on board for this. Although he may want to know as much as he can about you, he may not be as willing to share his private information with you. He will in time though so view this as an exercise in patience and show him that you trust that waiting to learn more about him will be rewarded by an even deeper connection between the two of you.

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